Life On Life's Term

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Gambling Problems: An Introduction for Behavioral Health Services Providers

Gambling Problems: An Introduction for Behavioral Health Services Providers
Gambling Addiction Vs Problem Gambling

Sunday, July 3, 2011

"Another Sad Story ... Becos of DEBTS !!!"

No mention of problem gambling here .... but it's about other critical problems in life, meeting life's term that led many to look for quick-fix solutions to deal with their overwhelming "debts".... such as gambling, borrowing ... and here in this case "borrowing from Mr. SHARK!!" ...

and to some, extreme case ...

Quick-Fix Solution = "Death"

Here's the report in Chinese ... (pls pardon me for those who can't understand Chinese as I cn't seem to find this report in English)

辅警向大耳窿借钱 无法偿还走上绝路

(2011-06-29)● 傅丽云 报道

  拖欠银行和电信公司等近四万元债务,薪水被银行扣除,辅警转向大耳窿借钱,结果非但没解决问题,财务状况反而更糟,最终走上绝路。李邝明(译音,38岁)数次向母亲说,如果无法偿还债务,他会跳楼或自轰;家人知道后,非常担心,设法帮他清还。

但时间一久,他们以为李邝明不是认真的,认为他应为自己的财务负责,就停止协助他。 去年5月31日下午3时30分左右,李邝明在公司AETOS位于裕廊企业路的基地厕所内自轰。



验尸庭昨天开庭研讯,验尸官杨启英认为李邝明死于自己造成的枪伤,而他这么做是要自寻短见。



死者原籍马来西亚,担任AETOS辅警约两年,驻守大士关卡。他的基薪1100元,靠加班能赚约1757元。调查显示,死者欠三家电信公司、五家银行和金融公司,以及一家家具店共近4万元。事发日,死者到大士关卡值班,时间从午夜零时30分至下午3时。死者值班时表现正常,还与同事开玩笑,根本没显露情绪低落或沮丧状况;与同事回裕廊基地归还佩枪等配备时,也没出现异样。



不过,在排队归还佩枪时,死者突然转身告诉女同事说“我再也受不了了”,然后离队。该女同事问他要上哪儿,他回说要用厕所。不久,女同事就听到一声巨响。她怀疑是枪声,但也以为是重物落地之声,就不以为意,继续排队。 当时,死者的另一同事阿兹曼在储物室更衣,也听到巨响,于是到厕所了解情况。

阿兹曼闻到浓烈弹药味,就走到第一间厕室查看,发现血液从第二间厕室流入。他急忙到第二间厕室敲门,但里头毫无动静,只听到沉重呼吸声。 阿兹曼跑出厕所求助,最终与另一同事合力打开厕门。他们见死者左手拿着佩枪,仰卧在地。
警方从死者的裤袋找到一封遗书。死者在遗书中对自己的行为表示歉意,说他选择这条路,将让自己不再有任何痛苦和负担。

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(I read this sentence with lots of thoughts ..... I once thought of it as well ...... the report wrote that he said in a letter he left behind..

"I regret my actions but I decide to chose this path of no return is to free myself of all the sufferings and burdens" !!!!

HOW CAN WE REACH OUT TO PEOPLE LIKE THIS ..... WHO HAS THE THOUGHTS OF ENDING EVERYTHING and NEEDED SOMEONE WHO CLD REALLY UNDERSTAND HIM ... LISTEN TO HIM AND WALK HIM OUT .......
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死者也表示希望上帝可以解救他,释放他沮丧和无助的灵魂,同时希望公司能提供经济援助给他患病的母亲和即将成为寡妇的妻子。 针对死者的遗言,AETOS发言人回复本报询问时说,公司已尽所能为死者的家属提供经济援助,尽力协助他们渡过这个艰苦时刻。 “我们为他的不幸死亡感到无比难过。与此同时,我们也通过一些措施协助有困难的雇员,预防类似事件的发生。”



发言人说,公司通过“职场情绪健康计划”,帮助员工更好地处理情绪问题。除了内部的辅导员,它也与其他的辅导中心合作,为有困难的员工提供最大援助。

另外,死者在自轰五天前,发手机简讯给一个朋友说,他很难偿还债务,“当我的薪水被银行扣除时,我没办法,只好向大耳窿借1000元,还以为银行不会扣除我的薪水,我可以偿还一些给大耳窿,但现在更糟。我想结束生命……”死者较早前也打电话给这名朋友,说他情况不好,负担很重,想要自轰,该朋友加以劝阻。



死者只跟上司提过,他跟妻子有些问题,但从未向上司或其他同事提及经济困境。2008年,死者的妹妹曾帮他偿还1万2000元给银行,其他家人也帮过他数次。他们虽知死者有轻生念头,但以为他只是说说罢了。


IT's really sad .... and it's really painful for those who still loves him dearly .....

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