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Gambling Problems: An Introduction for Behavioral Health Services Providers

Gambling Problems: An Introduction for Behavioral Health Services Providers
Gambling Addiction Vs Problem Gambling

Monday, July 29, 2013

Another Failure ?? Another Slip ?? Another Bet ??

So what will happen if you meet any failure in life ??

It was rather disturbing .... but motivating for me recently when I catch up with a long time recovery buddy.

His world completely collapsed  after he worked hard for the past 6-7 years to rebuilt his life. At a certain point back then, he climb up the ladder fast and well in the F&B industry ..... I was full of envy for him then ... He got this break, taken his chance and did well then ....

Now it was completely shattered ...... why ??

THAT's NOT IMPORTANT .....  not important for us to know the reason and what caused the downfall//
People, places and things all played a part in it ....

BUT what can we do .....
ESPECIALLY during recovery ... WHEN WE MEET ANOTHER FAILURE IN LIFE ..

Or we slip and gone back to gambling (but not yet destructive like before)

Things happened for a reason ...... but many times we do not need to know the reason ..

IT'S DONE AND OVER WITH.

MOST IMPORTANTLY ,,,,, I HAVE TO DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING !! and don't allow the failure to drag me down again.

This picture really inspired me AND I DON'T USE IT AS AN EXCUSE FOR ANOTHER FAILURE


Every failure ... Every Slip  ... Every Fall ..... I will learn the lessons well. All these failures, setbacks must not make me bitter and drag me down again ...

They are part of my success .... 
They are part of my learning experience to build my foundation for success if I learnt the lesson well ...

Easy to say then done ??? 
I'm not here to convince anyone ..... 
I'm here to share and to learn ... and I'm still learning and growing in recovery.

Life in recovery is always under construction.

It's a journey ..
............. that I may not reach my destination ......
............. A journey that may not be accident free ....

But i will keep in as safe as enjoyable as possible.


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